Advice On Does He Like Me?

by Lynn J

posted on 07/30/2009

This is an age old question that every woman, such as myself asks quite often. You meet a guy who is great in every way or he appears to be. He calls, texts, visits, and takes you out on a regular basis. Yet, a conflict soon arises because there are days when he disappears or becomes aloof and your just not sure where you stand in his heart.

Woman become frantic during these moments of distress. However, there is a solution that is pretty simple to this problem, one that most researchers may not recommend but has proven to be beneficial for me! Ask him directly how he feels about you. As woman we have a tendency to only ask this question to our inner self or friends, but never him! How does one propose to find the TRUE answer to this question unless they seek it out from the exact person that interests them?


I'm sure that there are several critics who oppose this suggestion. Some may say, actions speaks louder then words, others say pay attention to his eye contact when he is around you, and that his kiss is a sure sign of knowing. And I do agree with these suggestions, but why wait around for several months and waste your time to identify these signs when you can get things moving a little faster? If you ask a man how he feels about you he will say one of two things: "You are a great friend" or "I can see myself being with you."


If you hear the first line, run for the hills, but if the second is stated he may be worth pursuing. Once you have heard that he can see himself being with you, observe if his behavior matches his statement. As women we can waste a lot of time and energy with a man whose just not worth it. So, the next time you are pondering about rather or not a man truly likes you or not, why not just ask him, it may save you some heart ache later!

Please feel free to write a response or to ask anymore questions by writing me at: LynnJ_S@yahoo.com

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