Advice On Drama Between Girls

by highschooldrama

posted on 07/30/2009

We all know every girl has drama with her friends in high school. However, some girls are so hot-headed and can hold grudges for a long time. When i started high school i was the shy girl who never held drama and never really had an attitude. Im on the cheer squad and for the first two years everything was great i had maybe two fights but that was it. Starting my junior year which was just last year i started to party so i was making tons of friends and it seemed like a great time. A couple of months into my junior year the drama hit me. I learned how fake girls can be and who to trust people with basically your life. Now that the year is over and the summer is coming to an end i definitley know how to handle the drama. I have lost some really good friends but in the end it was probably the best thing.
First, when you are having problems with a friend or even another girl, LEAVE IT ALONE! Dont try to make the situation better, if anything it will make things way worse. Of course it doesnt hurt to try to clear stuff up but if the girl is to mad then let it go. Most of the time it is not worth the time.
Second, dont try to be cool and start talking shit. It will start more drama and now it will take longer to fix the problem. You will be mad and your gonna say stuff that you dont mean but be the bigger person and keep you mouth shut! Honestly, it is the best thing for you and then people will percieve the other girl as crazy.
Third, is she really woth your time? Ask yourself how long you two have been friends. If not long at all then drop her. If she is a true friend then let her calm down and she will come back. From personal expierence, i wasn't friends with the girl for very long, only about 5 months, but in that time we got sooo close. Long story short, she got mad for a very stupid reason and we just became civil. I let her come back to me and who knows, maybe we will become good friends again.
REMEMBER! High School only comes once and you should enjoy it for as long as possible. Its not owrth the drama. Im not saying that your gonna make it through school with no drama but at least you can have a better attitude about it. It is going to be my senior year and i have gone through everything possible when it comes to drama. It might be important that day but will it truly be important in the next week? If you need any advice on drama im def the person to ask.

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