Advice On Women: A Few Pointers For The Guys
posted on 08/20/2009
Okay, now I know I'm the last person that should be writing this article, but I have an in-depth knowledge on what women don't like. Here's the top two.
1) Whiny, neurotic, obsessive behavior
And
2) No confidence,self-esteem, and depressing thoughts.
I have sabotaged many relationships because I complained too much, I was always worried about dates, and I couldn't go more than a minute without talking to her. Women don't like that. Your girlfriend may say she "loves" you, and even if that may be true, that doesn't mean she want's to talk all the time. Sometimes, women, like men(Gasp a similarity), like to be alone.
You should avoid complaining to your girlfriend/girl of interest. The occasional, snippet here and there is fine, but if you complain nonstop about this and that, it can and will drive her away.
Neurotic behavior is something that can be both a blessing and a curse. On the off hand, everything will be perfect, but on the other side, you'll want to make everything perfect. Don't obsess too much. Sometimes a girl is okay with a few hitches in the plan.
If you've got no self-confidence, well, to be frank your screwed. Now that's not to say go around acting like the biggest bad ass in the room, some girls find that kind of confidence unattractive. Just remember to be yourself, and that if your gf/girl of interest is really into you, she'll like you for you.
Self-esteem is also very important. If you don't think highly of yourself, how can you expect your woman to? Remember that while you may not be the sexiest man alive, she wouldn't be talking to you if she weren't interested in you.
Being depressed is kind of the same principle as no self-esteem and no confidence. Why would a woman, who ultimately wants to be happy, be with a man whose depressed/depressing? They wouldn't. Again, I can't tell you how many relationships I've destroyed with being sad and mopey.
Chances are if you are planning to hook up with or are already with someone, you should be happy. Just remember the cliches."Be yourself" "Be confident" all that jazz and you'll be fine. Also, keep in mind what I've discussed here, and remember DO NOT DO THOSE THINGS. Do not exhibt these behaviors or you will all but ensure your relationships demise.
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Roger says:
(344d 5h 33min ago)
Women like an "Alpha Male". It's the way the world was designed!
Great article. Sound advice. I agree.