Advice On First Dates

posted on 10/02/2009

Advice on First Dates

She finally said yes to go out with you after countless times of nagging her, congratulations. Now you have to make up all the nagging with a date that will leave her in awe. By awe I do not mean to pick her up at 7pm, take her to a fancy expensive dinner and then a movie. How generic is that? I have no statistics but I am sure about 80% of dates follow this procedure and I have no idea why. You want to stand out from all the other chumps that have taken her on a dinner and a movie and the best way to do so is not to follow her previous candidates. Depending on the level on interest towards the significant other you will either disagree or completely compliment my ideas, of course I would prefer the latter because I do try.

The first thing is your appearance. No girl is going to be want seen with an unshaven, uncut, dirty looking fellow. So, go out and get the $30 dollar Hollywood haircut, if you are really interested, instead of dropping it at the bar with your boys in 10 minutes to step up your game. Next, take off all the hair on your chin and cheeks, no one is going to want to kiss your hairy face and you will hurt them if you are going to try and get near her smoother skin. Get all glamored up because she will be noticing what you are wearing, how you are wearing it and what you smell like. Do not overdo it on the cologne. Do just enough that she gets a small, if any, taste of what you are wearing making her want to get closer and closer to get a complete breath of what you are wearing. She will have done all of the above on her part, believe me. Again, you are trying to separate yourself from the other chumps she has brushed off.

An excellent first date, as opposed to a movie and a date, would be taking her to a theme park or zoo. This is a great setting for both to get to know each other and it takes away from the uncomfortable scene at the dinner table. You learn more about her and she learns more about you because people tend to be more themselves in this setting because they feel free and comfortable. Plus you get to sit next to her on all the rides, take pictures on them and play fun carnival games. I guarantee you that her day with you would never be forgotten and most likely she will be wanting seconds. So, you are out and about riding games eating junk food and playing like two little kids. How much better does the date get with that? Not only that you get to spend more than with her than the generic dinner and a movie, you have learned about her a whole lot more and it will give you a better idea if you should pursue. On the contrary, you cant really talk during a movie and if you eat during dinner and have manners you will not be talking much either. Theme parks and the zoo are perfect dates, go out and wow her. Bring her there and you will for sure will sure be the front runner chump she has been dating.