Advice On Dating
posted on 10/02/2009
"One of your friends is dating the guy you like." See its necessary to understand that for a relation it should be yes from both sides. In love one can never be forced. If he feels for her then you should forget him and move on in life, and if he is just friends, then you should try the best to be with him. I would suggest the following ideas, out of which one might help you.
1. Understand and talk to your friend. Your friend knows that you like that guy and you want her to understand this. But on the same lines your friend can expect the same from you. She might also like that guy and would like that you understand her. So it's very necessary to talk to your friend. Talk to her and know that how good their relation is. Try and get to know as much as possible. Also, if possible, try and talk to the guy to know about your friend.
2. Don't waste time on thinking a lot if you are really looking forward for a relation with the guy. Meaning I would suggest you to let the guy know that you like him. May be he responds and your life gets going with him? May be he is just waiting for you and you don't realise. So it's better to give it a shot.
3. One important point is that love is not done by looks or mind. It just happens. So you should be strong and firm. You should understand that your sadness would result in sadness of the ones who love you. Just think that for one person how many others will be sad? 'Its life, and one has to live it as it comes.' so no one can help you but you yourself.
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