Advice On Teenager
posted on 10/31/2009
Fact of Life
Everyone in this world need to go through different stages of life. Teenage is one of them. A very interesting fact of life is that the two persons belonging to different stages of life usually can't understand each other because they are thinking with totally different perspectives. For example when you was a teenager your thinking was totally different than what you are having right now. Wait a minute just think about that. I sure you will agree.
What should You
With the experience you have learnt what is good or bad, ok. But your Daughter don't have any experience yet. So you should know her feelings and try to understand her with a teenage mindset. Tell her that its fun to do all these things which a teen usually love to do.
I am with you and support you all the way. At the same time you should also need to take my advice because when you will grow up you will realize that a little caution or advice if you have taken at right time can change your life and make it more enjoyable for longer period of time. I am telling you because I have gone through this stage as well. Its not that there is a generation gap and you need not learn from me.
Tell her about the blend of mind and Body during various stages of Life
Usually the following appears to be true.
Kid = only body mo mind
teen= 80% body + 20% mind
Adult=50% body + 50% mind
old age= 10% body + 90% mind
So if someone is having more knowledge because of experience, you should follow that person.
Talk about the main Problem
Ask her why she love to drink and smoke. Is it because of some frustration or any thing else. She need to tell you so that you can help her. As far as I know, drinking and smoking is not the problem its just the outcome of some other problem which you should try to hear from her. Then you can help her.
THANKS
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