Advice On Love Failure

by mithun

posted on 11/07/2009

Hello friends now i'm advicing about love because i loved a girl she also loved me but due to such problems with her family she married another person,at the time i'm so hurt,after some days she was appeared in front of me and asked me that how are you,i told her that i have so much of feelings now but you are happy.
After 2 years she was standing in a bus stop with her child, at the time i can't do anything and i was shocked,i asked her how are you she told me that fine with carrying a small drop of water in her eyes,after that his husband was died due to aids,after 5 years she also died.
At the time i think that i wasted my time of 6 years for nothing
3 years duration for love.
2 years duration for loved.
the above story is mine also my elder sister affected by love her story is shown below
my sister says that:
I am a 25 year old female with a 27 year old boyfriend of about six and one half years. Although he is caring and supportive of me, he wants me to move on with my life so that the two of us can start a life together. I am currently living with him. My dad passed away. I have one grandmother who is still alive but is busy taking care of my grandfather (with dementia) and her brother (in a nursing home). My mother has a degenerative disability and struggles to support herself on a fixed income, while she and my brother pool money and live together and benefit from each other. So that leaves me searching the internet for advice,which is how I found you. I used to want to get married to my boyfriend but I don't think I really want anything in my life anymore. I am sick and tired of never doing enough and I just don't see the point in trying. I used to take care of a lot (paying the bills, doing the shopping, all house work, the meals, budgeting, managing rules of the house, dealing with creditors--by pretending that I was my mum, and investment plans for our future) all while trying to finish my high school education, full time dance (ballet major) that was leading to a professional theatre career (didn't have enough money and dropped out). Now that I have gotten my mom into a home with a mortgage, vehicle ownership and a little hope for her future, I wiggled my way out of the situation, but not before hearing a lot of hurtful comments about my abandoning personality and much worse. Our relationship is not improving. I am now in a university, but don't fit in or belong. I just don't care about pretending to act as though what we learn is really hard and act like some aesthetically pleasing bimbo. Doesn't anyone have anything better to think about? Why am I not happy with being an idiot like every one else seems to be? The truth is that there are a lot more important things in life and no one seems to care about any of them. So I thought that maybe I don't belong in university. I applied for a job at a nursing home, but they think that I am "overqualified" and won't hire me. I can't seem to fit in anywhere. My boyfriend thinks I should get as far away from my mom as I can because of her "sponging nature" but I don't have the heart to leave her. She thinks that my boyfriend and I are in a noncommittal relationship(regardless of what we say) and she has been quite cold to him. It almost makes me hope that he will never propose, because I feel as though she would never look at it as a happy thing and that would really make this moment in my life--that is supposed to be happy, excited and anticipatory--just an absolutely 0 reason to be a happy moment. To top it all off, I just recently got my yearly physical done, and my doctor just told me that I have to return in January for a retest and possibly a biopsy for cancer cells. I only told my boyfriend and am hiding it from everyone else. I just don't feel like I have anything to look forward to anymore. Thank you for listening, and I realize that you may not be aloud to say some things, but again, thank you for listening anyway. I just never wanted to say anything to anyone before because there is always someone worse off.

At the time i think that i wasted my time of 6 years for nothing
3 years duration for love.
2 years duration for loved.
So my advice
1.please ask your parents permission when you starting your love
2.please don't going to sucide attempt for your love failure.
3.please don't do any sexual contact before marriage.
4.don't go for dating.
5.don't cheat a person by using love.

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